Saturday 12 May 2012

Mother a creator, transformer and decision maker


Mother word has a very deep meaning inside it. Mother is a creator. She moulds the child. The moulding process starts very early. It starts when the child starts growing.

Mother is a person who builds the foundation of a child. She lays the first brick in the child mind. This building process starts when the child is in mother’s abdomen. When the child is growing in mother’s abdomen she read good books, she thinks of positive thoughts. This has a very good effect on the child in her abdomen.
If the mother in the family is strong and flexible the child also has a good character because he spends most of the time with his mother. He learns a lot from his mother. He adapts her qualities from his mother.  A lot depends on the mother.  Mother is like a farmer who puts a seed in child minds. If the seed is a positive one then the child is also going to progress in the life. If the seed is a negative one the child is going to fail in the life. I remember an old story. There is a small child. He has a habit of stealing. When he steals the first time her mother does not say anything.  She encourages her. Stealing becomes his habit. He grows. Now he is an adult. One day he is caught. He is put behind the bars. When he is in jail he realises that if he was slapped when he stole for the first time, stealing would not become a habit and he would not landed in the jail today. He thinks that her mother is responsible for this habit.

Mother is also a protector. When we are small she takes the decision on our behalf. She chooses the best things we should get in order to build a great personality. When we start growing she helps us differentiate between good and bad things.

Mother takes care of our daily needs. She chooses what we should eat so that we remain healthy. She chooses what we should wear so that we look smart. She chooses how we should dress, how we comb our hair. She takes care of our basic need.

Mother is a contributor to the society. If every mother in the society takes the initiative that she would transfer one of her qualities in her children then the whole society would change. The society would have a large range of individual. 

On this mother day we should thank our mother from our bottom of the heart. We should remember the effort our mother has put in ourselves so that we transform in an independent individual. We should remember her love and care.

On this mother day send her a e-card from www.desievite.com. This would make her happy. Please bring happiness on her face. 

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