Rituals and customs are part and parcels of Weddings in India. Here are some of the rituals followed in a Bengali wedding.
Bor Jatri
All the friends of the groom including the relatives
dress in the best attire and journey to the bride's house where the wedding
takes place.
Bor Boron
When the Bridegroom reaches the
door of the Bride, the entire family of the groom is welcomed by the Brides
relatives. The tradition is to blow Conch shells. An older lady from the
bride’s family does aarti for the groom and then touches the plate to the
groom’s forehead and then to the floor and back again to the groom’s forehead.
The groom is then offered sweets and sherbet and rose water is sprinkled on him
as he enters.
Potto Bastra
After the Bor Boron ritual the
bridegroom is made to sit at the chadnatolla (wedding altar and canopy).Here
the Groom is offered new clothes by the person who will carry out
Sampradan. This process is done in the presence of the preist.It is a gift to
the groom from the girls side.
Saat Paak
Next ritual after Potto Bastra is
Saat Paak.
The bride is not allowed to see her groom and she has to cover her
eyes with betel leaves. In this, the bride who sitting on a wooden surface, is
lifted by her brothers and as the name suggests the bride is taken around the
groom in seven circles. This signifies that the bride and the bridegroom are
tightly winded with each other.
Mala Badal
After the seven complete circles
the bride and the bridegroom are again made to sit on the wooden surface called
pidi. Now the bride and the groom exchange garlands of fragrant flowers thrice.
This signifies that the bride and the bridegroom accept each other.
Subho Dristi
The bride holds two beetle leaves
in her palms and holds them in front of her eyes to cover them. The bride and
groom look at each other for the first time during the wedding. This ritual is
called Shubho Drishti. This is done in front of all the assembled invitees.
This signifies that their alliance is accepted by the society and they would be
together after sometime.
Sampradan
The bride takes her place at the
chadnatolla(wedding altar and canopy) and her father gives her hand in her
husband’s. Sacred thread are tied around their hands amongst the chanting of
mantras (prayers). Their hands are placed on a brass glass which is covered
with mango leaves and a coconut.
The bride and groom sit in front of a holy fire
while the priest chants prayers.
Yagna
Saptapadi
The couple take seven circular
rounds around the fire.
Anjali
The bride's brother puts puffed
rice (khoi) in the hands of the bride, and the groom standing close to her
holds her hands from the back and extends their arms forward. They then pour
the offering into the fire together.
Sindoor Daan
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