India's northeast is a mixture of tradition, ethnicity and
cultural heritage. Popularly known as the Seven Sisters, the states Assam,
Meghalaya, Nagaland, Mizoram, Tripura, Manipur and Arunachal Pradesh is a mix of
race and rituals. Mizo is a grouping of people which consists of several ethnic
groups. These have a common culture, tradition, language, custom, mode of
cultivation, form of government, etc. Marriage is generally settled through
negotiations by both parties. It consists of three steps.
Pattam Pur (First
Step)
The boy's parent and relatives goes to visit the girl's
house. In addition to that they have to take Pulbareng which is a special carrier made by bamboo, Midejogora (wine which made by
sticky-rice), Sanny pedya, Vini
pedya,Hoga pedya (which is biscuits made by sticky-rice, normal rice mixed
with coconuts, sugar cane juice, etc.).The girl’s parents have keep a big jar
with full of water in front of the house. When the boy's party arrives a little
boy washes their feet and then they are allowed to enter the house. A waiter is
kept for welcome the boy's party when they enter inside the house. The waiter
welcome's them by joining hands and touching their feet. The girl’s parents are
at the main gate also welcome the guests. If the girl be chosen by the parents
of the boy, the guardian of the daughter demand dowry of an amount of money,
rice, pig for weeding ceremony and ornaments etc. for the girl. After that a
final date of marriage is fixed. After a couple of days guests leave.
Di Pur(Second
Step)
The girl’s parents demand and negotiate for the bride price.
If both party agreed, they fixed, the date, day and month for final weeding
ceremony. The boy’s parent must fulfil the demand of the girl's parents otherwise
the girl's parents have a full right to cancel the wedding.
Thin Pur (Final
Step)
The house of the bride is well decorated with lights and
banana plants, a big jar with full of water at front gate. An assistant is kept
to look after the arrangements. When the bride's party arrived in the girl
house the waiter receive them by washing their feet and respect and take
blessing from them. Now they enter the guest house where they receive a warm
welcome from the girl's side. Next Day they start preparation for weeding
ceremony.
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