Brahm form of marriage is very popular in the region. It is
an elaborate procedure and involves a series of rites and rituals. It is also
known as Vedic marriage. Here is a detailed description of pre-wedding rituals
performed in a Brahm form of marriage.
Laganotri
In this rituals the prohits of two sides meet and decide the
whole schedule of the marriage. They choose the appropriate dates for the
further rituals. Two copies of the schedule are prepared. The copies are then
handed over to the each side. These copies are called laganotri. It is a custom
to pay a certain fees to the priest. This laganotri has a great significance as
it prescribes the time when first ornament or cloth is to be prepared. In addition
to that it also contains the suitable time for the collection of food. This is
also known as sarvarambha muhurat.
Neundra
This ritual is performed seven, five or three days before
the marriage. It occurs at both the
sides. In this ritual both sides invite their close relatives and one person
from each house of the village. The list is prepared by the village prohit,
barber and some people from the village. Next invitations are sent to these
people. It is a custom to send invitation in odd numbers. On the other hand ladies from the village
assemble at the bride’s home and sing songs and dance.
Drub Ceremony
This is a most important ritual which occurs on the day or two
days before the marriage. In this ritual the groom’s sister or sister in law offers
arti. Tilak is applied on the forehead of the bridegroom. At the bride’s side maternal uncle is called.
He is a special invitee. The bride’s mother receives him. He also shares some
of the financial status which is called as ‘dharm dan’.
Batna
It occurs three, five or seven days before the marriage. Batna
is applied to the bride and groom at the respective home. It is a paste made
from barley flour, turmeric, orange and mustard oil. According to the tradition
the special paste batna is applied by relatives turn by turn. Mehndi is also
applied on the hand and feet. The mustard oil remaining is applied on the hair
of the groom. This custom is known as chhota
tel.
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